Don’t make me the villian for your child

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I’m not sure if quite a few parents nowadays are starting to feel entitled, far too stressed out or just do not want to be a parent in the first place but I am noticing much more that parents are using other things to take the blame so they do not need to parent anymore and as much as the saying “it takes a village to raise a child”, it is bullshit to blame the village for not doing your job.

So my story starts in a small cafe I enjoyed going to at times which serves quite nice chicken meals where a mother comes in with two children and some shopping. I am not sure how long it takes to order or what they ordered but after I started to eat I heard the woman say to her child something along the following. 

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My child is special!

Please ... be quiet
Please … be quiet

It’s a simple fact of life that biologically most people can have children and in our modern society those that want children but are unable to do so naturally could adopt a child (although I will not go into the fact most people want babies and leave actual children to stay in the care system) but society needs to learn that not everyone wants children and even more so not everyone thinks children are all that special. 

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