Your child is not my problem

It is not often I find things to moan about, it just looks that way by how often I post but today I came across something that I figured was worth writing about.

So today I was in the local town picking up a few things I needed where I came across a women whom was with her child. Now there is not much you can say about that but after I picked some things up, I then went up to the local library so I could pass a few hours until the next bus comes so I can go home where this women and her child once again turns up.

So I then go to sit down on the only computer left in the library where the women quickly rushes up to me and says:

Oh excuse me but I am very sorry about annoying you like this.

At which point she then just stood there. Not being a dick I decided it may be worth listening to what she has to say and she then went on to say how she wants me to get off the PC so her child could use it while she relaxed for a bit reading a book. While again there is no harm in asking, surely if I said no she would respect my wishes and then wait for another computer.

Oh, you were expecting a yes for that?

Oh right you also knew it was no else this would be a boring rant. Well what happened is I politely turned around and said sorry but I am in need to use this computer. Well it was at this point she turned … well, it may be better just to look at the image below as I am sure that will give you a better idea on what happened.

If Satan was a women
Yep, she got that pissed she morphed into a demon like version of herself with her right horn becoming a bit dodey which has nothing to do with a crap mouse being used but back to the rant. This women at this point now started too yell loudly saying that I was purposely annoying her and that whatever I am doing and I quote this exactly.

WHATEVER THE FUCK YOU ARE GOING TO DO CAN WAIT UNTIL MY SON HAS BEEN ONLINE AND PLAYED SOME GAMES. WHAT ARE YOU A FUCKING USELESS BIT OF SHIT THAT YOU HAVE TO ANNOY ME AND MY BOY BECAUSE YOU ROLLED AWAY FROM THE SHIT THAT YOU ARE.

SO WHAT THE FUCK IS IT. WHAT IS THE FUCKIING SHITTY REASON FOR YOU TO FUCKING ANNOY MY DAY. YOU HAVE TO GET OFF THAT BOX AND LET MY BOY ON IT.

Now someone swearing at me in public is not new and often they do it to hope that and not have attention pointing at me, I will instead back down and let her child use the computer. Well the nice way of putting it was she was wrong. So thinking of an answer I decided to ask her why I should let her child use the computer and more importantly what right he had over me to use the computer.

Having hoped she might have come to her senses, she actually went to say “she had all the fucking right” to do so because she is a mother who is with her child and that people have to give up things for them. After she had said that she then went into a ranting mode yelling that everyone is “the fucking same” and that no one doing anything more important then her.

So the end of it I decided to ask another question – why is yours child usage more important than anyone else. I then went on to say why I can understand that it is always oneself before someone else, but that does not mean that someone has to give up a computer for her. She went on to say that her reasoning for being more important is because she had a child and no one else using a computer does not and thus that she has to become first and yes, she used the word has.

Now having hearing someone laugh near me, she then went on to say that everyone in there was “fucking low lives” who has no future and then went to pull her child out of the library when he was trying to read a book – surely something that was keeping him quiet.

So I ask you lot this question. Why should mothers with children be more important than someone whom does not have a child?

Or is this an ego thing. Sure I can see in some cases where it may pose a danger to a child like giving up a seat on a crowded bus to a child but why do some parents make their child everyone else problem then clearly it is not.

31 thoughts on “Your child is not my problem

  1. Wild Cat

    It is not often I find things to moan about,

    haha………… yeah .. OK 😀

    Sure I can see in some cases where it may pose a danger to a child like giving up a seat on a crowded bus to a child

    We were thought when we were children that WE should give up a seat in the bus to an older person, I don’t see why kids should get the priority in seating, unless they are VERY young and in that case they SHOULD sit on their parent’s knees when the bus is full, not take up 2 seats (one
    for the mother and one for the baby) Unless she has more than 1 young kid at the time, she shouldn’t take up more than 1 seat!

    It is ridiculous how now suddenly mothers with kids think that they got the right to everything, after all surely, if she could be in the library with her kid, she was not working, so where does she get the money from?
    Most probably on benefits. From people like you and me, who have not got kids and pay the taxes to support her brat. Interesting that it was not the child who threw the tantrum but the actual
    mother……. the kid for the sound of it was quietly reading…… so it was content with not having a crappy game…… but what message does SHE send out to her kid? How is that teaching it respect ?? How is that teaching the right from wrong (which she has no concept of either)

    Bringing up like this then teaches kids that they have the right to everything, they can just take things they want and result in riots like the ones happening last year………. and looting…… or other crime like robbery and shop lifting…..

    Some people should be neutered and never allowed kids…… there should be some tests which all parents have to take before they can multiply and breed.  You need a test to drive a car but any dumb low life can breed…. ridiculous.

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    1. Snat

      +1. Can’t really add anything else to it. It could have been a mother that worked part time or someone whom partner works but still, it is a bad message to teach a child.

      We were thought when we were children that WE should give up a seat in the bus to an older person, I don’t see why kids should get the priority in seating, unless they are VERY young and in that case they SHOULD sit on their parent’s knees when the bus is full, not take up 2 seats (one
      for the mother and one for the baby) Unless she has more than 1 young kid at the time, she shouldn’t take up more than 1 seat!

      Maybe so, but I have been on many buses where a small child would actually be pushed around and likely get hurt due to how many people are on it. While sitting on a lap would be ideal that alone isn’t always possible if the people on the bus carrying a lot of shopping.

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      1. Wild Cat

         of course there are exceptions but that does not happen too often, I have seen many times a mother sitting on a bus with a toddler or young child and she is taking up one seat has only a smallish handbag and is chatting on a phone while the kid is jumping up and down the seat next to her while an old person is standing by them and hanging on the handle for dear life……..
        or school kids who are not that small and would be perfectly ok to stand sit around while old people are standing and are unsure on their feet while the bus is tearing on fast and taking sharp corners….

        Basically today’s kids are not thought right from wrong, they are not thought respect… they think that they are entitled to anything they want without having to earn it. And mothers like the one in your story do not help matters.

        But then her behaviour is not that surprising…. young teenagers are breeding kids just so they can move out and get a council flat, because they will be “entitled to get it + benefits cause now they are a single mother” and so on….. can’t expect the kids to know right from wrong when the parents dont know it either…. sad really

  2. Kristine

    So I ask you lot this question. Why should mothers with children be more important then someone whom does not have a child?

    Yeah I agree, nowadays people make  you feel that if you did not have a child you are a lesser human beineg….. or a lesser woman (if you happen to be a woman)

    I’ve been on a course recently and you know how at the start you got to introduce yourself in a few words, so as it happened, everyone started with “my name is xyz I am ## old and I got ## of kids…” and then said a word or two about interests and what they do
    There was one somalian woman who had 9!!! kids ……. and guess what – everyone was clapping and congratulating her what a HUGE achievement that is ……

    Really?!?

    Who paid for their upbringing?? Everyone else but her…….. how the hell could she? Those people they dont work, they just multiply like rats and let everyone else pick up the tab…. yet they make you feel as if they are more than you.

    When my turn came and I said I had no kids I was made to feel as if I was worthless….

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    1. Snat

      This I agree on and I am not sure why people think it is such a big deal over natural biological functions. While not everyone with children raises them on benefits, I have seen many times where society basically looks down upon people that does not have children.

      A good example in a way is taxes. If you have children, taxes do down. If you are a couple, taxes goes down. If you have a child, you will get things like housing benefit quicker than someone who does – even if you are in need of it.

      Shame really where society judges based on how many people pump out.

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    2. Hayfa

      BLAH typical fucking anti child bitch. I have 4 children ALL PAID FOR WORKING EVERY DAY.

      Having children is a huge achievement as you change and it takes a lot of effort to go to start a course when you got kids.

      I get it you hate children – let the people who love their bubbles of joy enjoy them!!!!!!!

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      1. Kristine

        First of all, there is no need for name calling and insults!
        You get what?!? You get that I “hate kids”? Where did I ever say that I hate them? Can you please point it out to me??

        I am not an anti child bitch, but people like your might make me into one pretty soon!!

        Yeah I have no children – but that does not mean I actually hate them!

        I am NOT stopping anyone from “enjoying them” but that should cut both ways, they (and their dumb parents) should NOT stop ME from enjoying life either!!

        I have nothing against well behaved and well brought up kids, who were thought right from wrong and who were thought respect. If you have 4 kids who are well brought up (though seeing from the way you responded to me and insulted me I somewhat doubt that) and pay for them all by working then good for you, I salute you….

        BUT many don’t! There are many families in this country where 3-4 generations of people were all on benefits and never worked in their entire life…………. then there are the ones who come in as refugees and expect everything for free, moan about the system, can’t be arsed to learn the language, hate the west yet chose to live here, moan about the religion, want to force their own religion onto this country and breed like rats and then look down on some one who has no kids.

        You know NOTHING about me, you have no idea whether I have no kids by choice or by fate, you have no right to judge and make me feel a lesser person just because I don’t have one, you have no right to make me feel worthless just because I have no kids…… but people do every day!! “You have no kids you are a worthless woman!!”

      2. Hayfa

        Show me the evidence that most parents live on benefit with children having children.

        Prove your fucking facts.

      3. Kristine

        I did NOT say “MOST”, I said MANY……. there is a difference, but guess you would need to learn the subtleties of the English language to pick up on things like this. ;) 

        Yes, many do and that IS a fact!

        And as I mentioned above, there is no need for foul language and insults.

        Is that what you are teaching your kids too?

        Hmmm…. you are just proving the point of the article (thumbsup)

      4. Snat

        Nice guess from where I am from. Just many countries from the left of there and you are right.

      5. Hayfa

        Go on. Insult me one more fucking time and I will call my fucking lawyer and get you behind fucking bars.

        I FUCKING DARE YOU

      6. Hayfa

        FUCKING ILLEGAL BITCH.

        GET YOUR WIDE FANNY AWAY FROM THE FUCKING STATES YOU ILLEGAL BITCH STEALING AWAY FROM HONEST WORKERS.

      7. Snat

        Please do take this as an offence but you are kinda the reason for this article – it is people like you that puts themselves above everyone else. Let me guess you are one of these people that says children are the future and thus more important and all that crap.

        Sure you enjoy your child but I have no interest in your little ball of genetic material – it isn’t for me to give a shit so why should i have to go out of my way so you get what you want.

        Double standard, if anything but hey who cares eh?

      8. Hayfa

        Who cares eh?

        MY FUCKING LAWYER CARES. You do not fucking insult me on here and expect to get away with it all?

        Oh children is more important. Your fucking life is nothing to a child. I will gladly kill you and get give everything to my child as you ARE WORTH NOTHING.

      9. Snat

        Oh go on then, sue me like everyone else claims they will do. Oh and nice threat with killing me – that will go down well!

        Who is your lawyer anyway, someone else living with you or a free Internet advise forum. If it is the Internet, please do not tell me it is Yahoo answers.

      10. Wild Cat

         wow

        Funny how the only person on here who is doing any kind of insulting and name calling is actually YOU!
        Noone else had to result to foul language, it is obvious that you have no class… your communication skills are poor, you are probably very badly brought up, and I can see how your 4 “lovely bubbles of joy” will turn up too 

        GEEZ **rolling eyes**

      11. Wild Cat

        wow

        Funny how the only person on here who is doing any kind of insulting and name calling is actually YOU!
        Noone else had to result to foul language, it is obvious that you have no class… your communication skills are poor, you are probably very badly brought up, and I can see how your 4 lovely “bubbles of joy” will turn up too

        GEEZ **rolling eyes**

        PS: “bubble of joy”? … lol ….. just another example of how poor your English is 😀 It’s called a “bundle of joy”

  3. The Boss Man

    They choose to get preggo… it’s a choice that they have to live with ultimately. So.. good for them..lol

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    1. Kristine

      Yeah but the point of this article is that THEY chose to get pregnant and have a kid not me not snat not some one else….. and just because they make that choice that does not make them any more important or worthy of things that everyone like to use (like a use of a computer in a library in this instance)

      Good for them? Yeah…….. as long as they don’t bother ME with their kids and don’t demand I give up things just because they got a kid so they “deserve it more”…

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