Tweaked for your Pleasure

Hello readers. My name is Adam Wright a.k.a. popmanw online. I want to speak to you all today about an issue that will affect us all at some point in our life’s. This of course, is about moving away from family and friends and being at the frontline of new surroundings. As it is September, a prime example of this would be the move to University. That life of child and teenage-hood which you have lead for so many years suddenly stops and you feel like you’re expected to start over again with no real control. Leaving friends is hard but parting from family for a considerable amount of time can be even harder. We as individuals may moan until we are blue in the face about people and where we live, but once that move has taken place, you respect the people you knew and the area you lived in. Them type of places get the true definition of ‘home’ once you have moved away sadly.

 

When us human beings are subject to new people and new surroundings, we can behave very unordinary and not be ourselves.  It is the familiarity that gets the majority of people through hard times. When you are faced with new people in your life you may feel pressured to show yourself in a different light and do things you normally would not.

 

So, how can we deal from the pains of moving on? One of the first things you should always do is take photographs and other little memories of your past venture. Memories of friends and family is vital. Staying in contact is a lifesaver as well. With mobile and online technology, this has become very easy to do. Secondly, where ever you have moved to, put your own mark on the place. This could be something as simple as setting up your belongings in the same manor. Thirdly, if you feel pressured to do something to fit in that you don’t want to do deep down, then don’t. Be happy and truthful and your new venture will be a rewarding one. There is no point being miserable about your actions, just be yourself and make it easier for you. Over time you may slowly develop if you wish to do so.

 

I hope this helps some of you out there. Remember, you are not alone. There are other people in the same situations as this and possibly thinking the same thing.

 

Regards,

Adam Wright (popmanw)